Over break I was having a conversation with Nancy, a
violinist in the Chicago Symphony Orchestra, as well as a friend of my family.
She has a house in my hometown in Italy, Spoleto, where my family and her met a
couple of years ago. Nancy and her husband Terry have fallen in love with the
diverse architecture of the town, presenting styles that vary from Ancient
Roman times to our days. They have also fallen in love with the Italian way of
life, characterized by a relaxed pace, shopping for food at local markets and
stores, a pervasion in art in everyday life, and, of course, good wine. There
are certain aspects about the Italian way of life, however, that she finds are frustrating.
The main one is the inevitable tendency of Italians in being late.
She told me about an episode in which Terry and she were
involved. They hopped on a public bus to go from the train station to their
house. The bus driver had to wait one minute in order for the bus to run
exactly on schedule, but a tourist couple approached the bus driver asking him
where to buy tickets. The bus driver pointed at the newspaper kiosk where they
could buy them, not mentioning the fact that he would have left the following
minute. But, in fact, the bus driver wanted to do the couple a favor and decided
that waiting for them would have been the right thing to do, the nice thing to
do. As a result, the bus left five minutes late. Just a few stops later, one of
the main bus stops of the town, there were six people waiting for the bus.
This is just a simple example of a common tendency in
Italian culture, where being 20 minutes late for an appointment is perfectly
acceptable, where classes at universities have developed the concept of the
“academic 15 minutes” (i.e. a class scheduled at 9am is expected to start at
9.15am), where the average delay of trains is 7 minutes (this statistic also
takes into account trains that are on time). There is actually an unofficial
website that, by entering the number of the train, it will tell you its
current, average, and expected delay.
I found this story interesting because it brings forward two
ethical issues that we have discussed in class this semester: cultural
relativism and consequentialism. The first one is concerned because I can tell
you that, as a person that grew up in Italy, being late is not perceived as
being late; it is perceived as a normal feature of everyday life. If my friends
and I want to go out for a drink on a Friday night and wish to meet at 10.30pm,
we will schedule to meet at 10pm. Being raised in a bicultural family (my
mother is American), I sometimes point out to my friends how this doesn’t make
any sense and, although they kind of acknowledge it, they don’t perceive as a
big deal at all and continue to follow this model. Cultural relativism is
involved in this issue because the conception of punctuality is perceived
differently throughout different cultures.
The issue of consequentialism concerns the bus driver’s
choice of waiting for the tourist couple to the detriment of the six people waiting
at the next bus stop (and of all the people at the next bus stops). The bus
driver thought that he did a good deed by accommodating the needs of the
tourist couple, but he neglected the needs of all the people, perhaps dozens of
people, that suffered from the bus delay (maybe one of these people was a train
driver who consequently made the train depart late). Consequentialism looks for
the best outcome for the greatest number of people. Therefore, a
consequentialist bus driver would have ignored the needs of the tourist couple to favor the needs of dozens
of people.